For some reason, maybe it’s easier not to. Like I said, women are very calculated. Because of this knowledge, I would have to act in some way. With a – we’ll call it – soft suspicion, I can just close my eyes and do whatever is easier. Maybe I don’t want to give you up. Maybe we have a family. Maybe we have a home. Maybe the sex is just that good (I’ll touch on this later). Maybe you offer me financial stability. Sure, much of this will seem materialistic, but you never know what kind of situation you might find yourself in.
Which brings me to another point: remember, as I said, women calculate. Maybe we’re choosing to ignore your dishonesty for a certain period of time. Maybe we’re just waiting until we get that raise at work, find a buyer for our home, or find another man to, well, get under. Seems cruel, right? A betrayal akin to what you’re putting us through, right? Because why should we worry about your feelings or being moral when you have opened the door? We trusted ourselves, our bodies, our hearts, and our well-being to you, and you have trodden all over us. It would seem only fitting that we make sure that we can stand on our own two feet before we open the door to that certain demise of our relationship.
Now, I had mentioned sex. This is another facet of the complications brought on by dishonesty. Remember how I said that we humans are also animals? So we also have animalistic needs. We have the need to express ourselves sexually to be happy and functioning. In my five years of marriage, I couldn’t count the number of times I ignored anger I felt towards my husband or betrayal I felt because of him in order to, well, get what I needed. Sure, you could cheat; but I just don’t have it in me. There’s also a certain physical attraction between my husband and myself that is just undeniable. I can look at him, hate him, and want to be ravaged by him at the same time.
So, if I were to check those phone records, make those phone calls, or follow him and catch him in the act, would I be able to fulfill my sexual needs anyway? Would I be able to overlook whatever betrayal I was feeling in order have that physical release? Could I get past it? I’m not really sure. I don’t think so. Because my knowledge would be confirmed. Even though (in my particular situation) the betrayal was non-sexual.
Let me say goodnight to you by reiterating that: Women are smart. We are smarter than you. We are more cunning than you. We have seen every trick in the book. If you are getting away with it, it is only because we let you. Don’t get it twisted.
This is the animal kingdom. Man must impress woman to win and keep a mate. Man must demonstrate to his woman why he is the best choice, the strongest, the most powerful, the most attractive. Man must secure a woman and not the other way around. I mean, if we’re speaking instinctually.
So, boys: impress us;